I’ve been thinking, lately, about the space that food occupies in our lives.
There’s a food blog trope about feeding our families and friends being this generous act of nourishing and the motivating force behind many people’s drive to cook (and let’s be honest, most of these people are women).
And I don’t doubt that many people find meaning in feeding others, and I do think feeding people is a generally undervalued job in this world (and celebrity cheffing is probably overvalued in this particular cultural moment).
But it’s never felt quite honest as an explanation for why I cook.
I’ve always cooked for myself. My first forays into cooking as an adolescent were because I was picky eater and wanted to take control of what I was eating. Later, my world and my taste for different flavors expanded, and cooking became a way to participate in culture, to experiment and explore, a creative outlet and a craft for mastery, a self-improvement project I could pour myself into with results I could, almost always, eat.
After college, I dove deep into cooking precisely because I didn’t have to. Yeah, I had to eat, but that could be frozen pizza and veggie burgers and takeout (and, even with my burgeoning interest in cooking, it often was those things).
It was the early 2000s. I was bored at work and didn’t have the money to go to nice restaurants, but I could escape into the world of Gourmet magazine and Donna Hay and Jamie Oliver cookbooks and this new thing I discovered, a food blog, 101 Cookbooks, that made an aspirational lifestyle feel accessible through my kitchen.
I went through a phase of wanting to learn to COOK ALL THE THINGS. Risotto, homemade pasta, bread–oh was there bread–ice cream with exotic flavors, choux pastry and laminated doughs and chocolate truffles.
I got more positive feedback for the treats I brought into the office than I did for the work I was doing for actual money.
Cooking became a way to prove myself, to impress people (and, oof, as a perennial overachiever did I feel the need to impress people), an integral part of my identity.
(There may or may not have been a chocolate tempering failure that resulted in cracked truffle shells that left me curled up in the fetal position in tears for hours because it was so tied up in my idea of my worth as a person…)
But most of all, it became a way to get used to eating really well pretty much all of the time.
Over time, its role in my life has shifted. Cooking remains a passion project and big part of my identity, but as I’ve waded deep into my 30s, I’ve become less interested in impressing people than I once was.
I’ve become more interested in bringing people into this wonderful deliciousness that I’ve been mucking about in for so many years.
I’ve become intent on showing you (if you don’t already know), that a better world is accessible through your kitchen, too. That it doesn’t have to be onerous or even particularly complicated unless you want it to be. It just takes a bit a care and thoughtfulness and time.
This charred broccoli with harissa yogurt sauce is one of those humble dishes that’s so simple to throw together but that brings deliciousness in a big way.
The creamy yogurt sauce gets a shot of heat from the harissa paste.
And the whole thing gets an oniony crunch from nigella seeds, which look quite a bit like black sesame seeds but taste, to me, like the punchy topping of an everything bagel.
There’s protein here from the Greek yogurt, and I’ve been known to eat this all on its own for lunch, but it’s also wonderful topped with a poached egg or alongside a piece of chicken.
It’s a small thing, but a perfect way to bring a little more delicious into your life.
- 3 medium heads broccoli, chopped into bite-sized pieces
- 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1 cup full fat plain Greek yogurt
- 2 teaspoons harissa paste, or more to taste
- 1 teaspoon nigella seeds, or more to taste
- Heat oven to 450°F. Add the broccoli to a bowl and toss with olive oil and season with salt. Roast until blackened and charred in spots, about 20 minutes.
- Meanwhile, stir the harissa paste into the yogurt. Taste and add more harissa paste if you want more heat. The sauce will be thick, but you can thin it with a few tablespoons of water if you like.
- When the broccoli has finished roasting, add it to a large mixing bowl, and add the yogurt sauce and stir to coat. Sprinkle with nigella seeds. Serve.
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Amount Per Serving:Calories: 148 Total Fat: 8g Saturated Fat: 1g Trans Fat: 0g Unsaturated Fat: 6g Cholesterol: 3mg Sodium: 378mg Carbohydrates: 12g Fiber: 5g Sugar: 4g Protein: 9g